Saturday, October 10, 2020

Sermon - Rules for Really Living - 18th Sunday after Pentecost (22A)

 Proper 22 - Year A (World Communion Sunday)                         October 3, 2020

Exodus 20:1-4, 7-9, 12-20; Matthew 21:33-46                  Panzer Chapel Liturgical Service

Rules for Really Living 

This year, we’ve been wandering thru the Pentateuch – the first five books of the Old Testament or Hebrew Bible. We’ve seen the relationship between God and humans ebb and flow. Just to be clear, it’s the humans that can’t decide how much to trust God. Again, and again, God offers the means to be in a full and meaningful relationship. Again, and again, the children follow when it’s to their benefit, and grumble when things don’t go their way. Over the last month, we have seen the post-exilic Israelites moving through an untamed land, often complaining and wishing themselves returned to their former life of slavery, because – well, at least it was predictable. It is not until here, Exodus 20, that God reframes the whole relationship. And it started with these ten rules.

Moses received them and brought them to a very disgruntled people. These ten rules encompass the spirit of what a relationship with God should look like. They provide the framework for an alternative society. It’s God’s way of saying, “By worshiping me, you are different, and so here’s how to live differently.” This new community is held together not by a majority vote on common goals but rather through common worship of the one and only God.[i]

Our text begins with “I am the Lord your God” (20:2) and ends with focus upon “your neighbor” (20:17). Here, God defines what it means to be one of God’s people. It’s not just about proximity – we’re not God’s people just by following along in the wilderness or claiming the name for ourselves. These rules are meant to be lived in relationship with the God who gave them.

The Israelites were not always impressed. Perhaps, like many a vision statement, they thought them vague and unmeasurable. Maybe they just wanted to express their independence by going their own way. Either way, there were many times that the Israelites dropped and ball and lost their way (sorry for the mixed metaphor). That’s why it’s important to come back to them today and see why they continue to be a grounding point for the children of God.

Today I would like for us to take this list we call the Ten Commandments and think about them in a little different way. They are more than a list of do’s and don’ts. They help define how to relate to God and to one another so that we can live in grace and peace together.

It would be easy to list each of the commandments and decide what action we should take to better incorporate them into our lives. But first let’s put them in today’s language… and to be even more radical, let’s look at them from the backside, from the “shall” rather than the “shall not” side of things.

Old Testament scholar Dr J Ellsworth Kalas, frames them this way.

1. You shall have no other gods before me can also be heard as …God shall have all of you.

2. You shall not make for yourselves idols becomes… You shall adore the mystery that is beyond comprehension.

3. You shall not misuse the name of the Lord becomes… You shall enter into God's name.

4. Remember the Sabbath becomes… The Sabbath will keep you.

5. Honor your father and mother becomes…You shall accept the blessing of the past so that you can have a future.

6. You shall not murder becomes… You shall embrace life.

7. You shall not commit adultery becomes…You shall cherish the sacredness in you and your mate.

8. You shall not steal…You have been given all you need.

9. You shall not give false testimony…You shall bless and be blessed by the truth.

10. You shall not covet your neighbor’s stuff… You shall rejoice in your neighbor's having. (J. Ellsworth Kalas' book, THE TEN COMMANDMENTS FROM THE BACK SIDE.)

This is God saying, “I brought you out of the slavery of the past to the freedom of the present.  Don’t take our relationship for granted.”

·     Idols… they can never reveal to you how big my love for you is.

·     Naming a day to worship me means that our special relationship can grow stronger.

·     Respecting others, whether parents or life or things belonging to someone else… means you will be blessed in God’s own time.

Everyone who has ever been a parent or worked with children and teenagers knows about boundaries. They set limits beyond which it is not acceptable to go. Experience and research show that children given firm boundaries tend to be happier and more secure than those who haven't. At our best, we give our children a great deal of freedom within the boundaries we have set. We allow them to make their own decisions and choices.

At the same time, we are always there, caring and guiding; we maintain our relationship with them and expect them to respond – asking for help when they need it, appreciating what is done for them, and learning from us. But when the boundaries are broken, we also have to be there to bring them back in. Appropriate consequences for boundary-breaking behavior must be set and adhered to in order for the whole system to work.

I’ve experienced the freedom of boundaries from both sides. My mom always allowed me to use her as an excuse if my friends wanted to do something I was uncomfortable with… just tell them your mom won’t say yes to that. And as I have worked with youth and college students over the years, I saw them respond positively to the boundaries that we set out. They wanted to know what was expected of them, to be reined in when they got it wrong, and to be praised when they got it right.

In God’s eyes, the Ten Commandments represent the boundary: largely stated in the negative, as boundaries tend to be, and setting out limits which must not be overstepped. But they do not stand alone. The boundary (commandment) is not a substitute for an on-going relationship with God; it provides the context for it.

A child who has been given firm boundaries, but without a healthy relationship with his or her parents, may grow up with a strong sense of right and wrong, but without the social skills to function well in community. In the same way, a religion based on the Ten Commandments, but which lacks a relationship with the living God, risks being strong on condemnation, and useless at relating faith to the real world.

We are mistaken if we think that God gave us these rules only to keep us in line. God gave the rules to frame what it means to be in relationship with the One who created us. God doesn’t just want us to obey. God wants us to worship Him, and to be so in love with him that this love spills out into the rest of our lives. Worship on Sunday morning isn’t the box we check off and say, “OK, that faith thing is done for this week.” Hopefully, it’s a time to get refueled for the business of living out our faith in the world every day, in every way.

Bishop Rueben Job was a United Methodist bishop born in Jamestown, ND. His path to ministry and the episcopacy was remarkable. He dropped out of high school at age 15 to work the family farm when his father had a heart attack. He said he would have been happy to be a tiller of the soil for his whole life. But his family and his church saw more.

When he was 22, he left the farm for Iowa, where on the first day he met his future wife. With her help and a group of strong tutors, he graduated from college and seminary and in 1957 left to serve his first appointment back in North Dakota. Imagine his surprise when he arrived at the parsonage, where his furniture had been unloaded and left and was greeted by three elderly parishioners who asked, “Can you preach in German?”

Over his 58-year ministry, he served local churches and as a USAF chaplain in Germany, wrote over 20 books and was the World Editor of The Upper Room, an arm of the UMC publishing house. He was later elected bishop, and still maintained his place as a quiet activist, a contemporary mystic, a gentle prophet, and the spiritual guide to hundreds and thousands.[ii]

His most popular book was a thin volume still in demand today – Three Simple Rules. In this small and mighty work, he reminds us of our call to ministry and service to God: "do no harm, do good, stay in love with God.” In it, Bishop Job writes, ‘The rules are simple, but the way is not easy. Only those with great courage will attempt it, and only those with great faith will be able to walk this exciting and demanding way.’[iii]      

Through Jesus, in words to the gathered followers at the Last Supper, God promised we would never be alone – and look – we have the Holy Spirit and the community of faith to prove his promise true. And yet we have not always kept our promises. Don’t you think that God is sad when he looks down on creation and sees all the ways that we have made our relationships with one other negative – the ways we have pitted ourselves against one another and erected boundaries, tall and wide. Left vs. Right – Democrat vs. Republican – Black vs. White -- Liberal vs. Conservative – Jew vs. Muslim – Christian vs. Christian – Me vs. You... the list goes on and on.

Over time, we have been fooled into the belief that “freedom” means we can live life any way we want. Through these Ten Commandments, God defines freedom as the freedom to be who God has created us to be. Our freedom comes from being bound to God. We no longer have to write our own stories from scratch. We’re now freed into the service of the God who makes our lives mean more than we could make them mean on our own. This is true freedom.[iv]

When we come to the Lord’s table together, we say many things. We say that we believe in the possibility of forgiveness, not just ours, but also the ability that God gives us to forgive others and ourselves. We say that we believe in the openness of God’s love, which invites to the table all people who seek God’s peace and will, even if it’s not OUR will. We say that we believe that God’s miraculous love is more powerful that our hate or greed or lust put together, and that we want and need the healing power that coming to this table will bring to our lives.

In the Gospel lesson, Jesus criticizes religious leaders who are more interested in their own status and power than in caring for God’s people. Jesus tells the story of a group of tenants who murder their landlord’s messengers. Instead of being faithful caretakers of the vineyard, they impede the landowner from receiving a full harvest from the land. And they pay the price.

God has entrusted this wonderful life to our care. We are the tenants of God’s vineyard. When God seeks an accounting, how do we measure up?

As we celebrate the Eucharist on this World Communion Sunday, let us give thanks for the millions of Christian people who come to the Lord’s Table and say, “Let us be one.” Many things divide us, but if you take nothing else away with you today, remember this image … of sitting together at a huge family meal. That comes as close as I can think of to what it would mean to truly be the united body of Christ.

There are rules for living, and for all of them, we give thanks. And then there is grace. And for it we get life…life everlasting… Amen.

Peace, Deb


[i] Will Willimon, “God’s People at Worship,” Pulpit Resource, Vol. 48, No. 4, Year A, 2020.

[ii] Bruce Ough, “Reflections on the Life and Witness of Bishop Rueben Job,” https://www.dakotasumc.org/news/reflections-on-the-life-and-witness-of-bishop-rueben-job

[iii] Rueben Job, Three Simple Rules: A Wesleyan Way of Living, Abingdon Press, 2007.

[iv] Will Willimon, Ibid.

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