Sunday, December 30, 2012

When a movie feels like church...

"To love another person is to see the face of God...."  This is Jean Valjean's final line in the play and movie of Victor Hugo's Les Miserables.... which I can honestly say is one of the most profound literary, musical and movie experiences of my life.

Unlike many people in the this country, I was first introduced to Les Miserables through the book, all 1463 pages of it.  It was a gift from a friend in seminary and I read it from cover to cover in less than one week. I was so transfixed by the story that I could barely manage to put it down to sleep, and would pick it up to begin the read again as soon as I awoke.  That week was supposed to be one of recovery from the intensity of a difficult semester of reading and writing.  But the power of the story, of it's picture of forgiveness and grace - I could not help but be swept away and changed forever by its enduring message of love.

Just a few months later, I had the opportunity to see the musical adaptation for the first time.  I drove with six of my friends from Durham to Atlanta for a Saturday matinee, and then back to Durham the same night.  We talked about it the whole way home - about six hours - and for days afterward.  The music and staging enhanced my fondness for the story, and so I read it again over the summer break.  Ultimately, I was able to process the story most fully when I wrote a semester-length paper for a church theology class on grace in my last year of seminary.  And still I held on to my original book copy, complete with its underlining and highlighting and dogeared pages... it is a good friend that I always want to be in touch with.

Three more times I have seen the musical - in Raleigh, in Norfolk, and on the original London set in the East End ... in a theater with less than 1000 people.  In London, I saw it with my husband, who was as enthralled as I was, and who never wants to see anything for a second time, except this.  We have watched the concerts on PBS during pledge drive, own the 25th Anniversary concert on Blu-Ray (it's actually our only Blu-Ray disk), and have waited with great anticipation for the release of the movie. It was everything I hoped it would be and more.

Today, sitting in that movie, it felt like being in church... very up close and personal.  You could almost feel the dirt, smell the stench, feel the rain.  And when tears were shed, they were not only Fantine or Valjean or Javert's tears, they were my tears, too.

This is a book, a play, and a movie about injustice... about oppression... about grace... about forgiveness.  It is a story that transcends 19th century France and mirrors many of the stories of struggle throughout the world today.  It asks the question, "Can people change?"  In our experience, we often think not, but the whole gospel message says that we can, only not by our own power alone.  It is through our relationship with Christ that change occurs.  But it is often difficult to imagine what that kind of change could look like in our own lives.

These immortal characters help us to ask ourselves what we would do in the same circumstances.  Would we have forgiven as the bishop did?  Would I have made the dramatic turn around that Jean Valjean made?  Would you continue to live out grace, even if you were afraid your secret past was about to be discovered?  Would we keep impossible promises and totally change our lives, all because of a promise made to a God that only became real in an unimaginable and unwanted way.  (I hope this was vague enough not to ruin the plot, but not so much as not to get my point across.)

In the end, I think this is exactly what Hugo wanted from his readers.  He wanted us to ask, "Is my faith real - is it alive? Can others see it?  Are they inspired by it?  Does it give me the courage to fight injustice and oppression and help others, even when it is risky for me?

I think this is what church is supposed to do... Or in the words of Pastor Carl today, are we, like the magi, willing to go home by a different way?  And what would that look like?  Would it look like Les Mis...?   Or would it look like something that I can't even imagine, yet?

I wonder....

Peace, Deb


Monday, December 24, 2012

A Merry, Messy Christmas to You

This sermon was prepared for Audubon Park United Methodist Church in Spokane, WA on December 24, 2012.
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Luke 2:1-20

This service tonight is our last expression of the Advent season.  We have sung the Christmas story in hymns and anthems, and heard it's message in scripture and prayers.  And while many in the world around us think that Christmas will be over tomorrow, we are reminded that Advent is our time of preparation, like getting ready for a wonderful party.  Christmas Day – December 25th is when the whole celebration really begins.  The seasons of Christmas and Epiphany are the party themselves, and ones in which we are beckoned to participate.

During Advent, we have heard messages of hope and promises of salvation through the words of the prophets Isaiah and Micah, and through the angel who visited Mary and told her of the amazing miracle that God was going to work through her.  In Christmas and Epiphany, we are invited to celebrate the fulfillment of those promises in the gift of Jesus Christ.  Our opening verse and closing hymn, “Joy to the World,” reminds us that the news is too good to keep to ourselves:

Joy to the world, the Lord is come!  Let earth receive her king;
Let every heart prepare him room, and heaven and nature sing…

These are the days of singing for all of creation.  God’s word is fulfilled.  The Lord has come, and through him, we will all be saved.  Tonight we celebrate the birth of a child, but not just any child.  Tonight we celebrate the birth of God’s own son, the very coming of God in the flesh.

The theological term is “incarnation,” which means, “God made flesh.”  The whole Christmas story, as we piece it together, tells of people who were truly in awe of what was happening around them.  The newborn child in the manger, his parents, the angel-struck shepherds smelling of sheep and sweat, the wise men and their costly, aromatic gifts, all were waiting for God’s blessing.  And that blessing came in the person of Jesus Christ, growing from infancy to childhood, and beginning a ministry among God’s people.

Tonight we celebrate this incarnation, the fleshing out of the story of God’s love for all of God’s people:  it is a story of the extraordinary filling the ordinary;  it is God’s glory manifested in earthly, everyday things.

In reality, it was probably a messy, messy Christmas, that first Christmas Eve night.  Mary and Joseph had traveled ten days journey from Nazareth to Bethlehem, only to find the family home already overrun with others who had traveled for the same reason. Who could have known that Mary’s time would come so soon?  Who would have thought this to be the perfect place for the birth of a king?

Many of us hope that Christmas will calm and quiet, a time for reconnecting with family and friends, and maybe a time of rest.  But the first Christmas was probably nothing like that.  It was frightening, as Mary and Joseph had traveled a long distance to be present for the government ordered census after being told about this amazing and curious pregnancy.  Their accommodations were less than desirable, even though the stable was probably the most private and quiet place in their family home.  And soon strangers would come to validate what they had been told, first shepherds straight from the fields, and later, foreigners with gifts that would foretell of this baby’s life journey.  And later still, the family would flee to Egypt to escape King Herod, who would do just about anything to eliminate any possible competition from this so-called infant king.

The celebration of Christmas didn’t start the year after Jesus was born – or the year after he died.  It started over two hundred years later, when the early church realized that the birth stories were a new way to bring  people into the story… new listeners – new believers – new worshipers of this fully human – fully divine, “oh so different” king. 

Like no other part of Jesus’ story, the nativity story makes real the fact that God was one of us... nurtured in the water of the womb through nine months of forming fingers and toes and ears and eyes.   Then there was the birth… like millions before it.  God came into the world as others babies do.  With tears mixed with laughter, fear, pain, exhilaration, joy, exhaustion.  Anguish for Mary.  Trauma for God.  Finally, after all of that, God drew his first human breath and smelled what?  The warm stench of a barn.  You can’t get more humble than that. (Betsy Wright, The Virginian-Pilot, 12/16/95)

This is what makes us embrace this baby Jesus so warmly.  You see, in Jesus, God become totally accessible.  In Jesus, God isn’t the one we hide from, as Moses did behind a rock, waiting for the Lord to appear.  No, in Jesus, we have a God we want to hold in our arms and cuddle, a God over whom we can exclaim, “what a miracle”, just as we do to the babies in our own lives.

There’s a wonderful children’s story – The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson.  Boy, did she ever get it right when she told about a Christmas play that did not go the way everyone expected.  It all started when the director broke her leg a few weeks before Christmas… and the six worst kids in the town volunteered to play all the major roles… during every rehearsal there was hitting and cussing and general malcontent.  Through the practices, it is revealed that the Herdmann kids had never even heard the story of Jesus’ birth… they just came to church for the donuts.  And when their fearless leader, oldest sister Imogene, found out about all of the indignities surrounding the nativity story, she just wanted to go beat somebody up.

But on the night of the play, everyone listened with new ears as these novice players acted out the familiar story right before their eyes.  And they knew that the children had gotten it right as the Mary and Joseph entered the sanctuary.  The story’s 10-year old narrator described them like this – “They looked like people you see on the six o’clock news – refugees, sent to some strange ugly place, with all their boxes and sacks around them.”  And when the Three Kings came to worship the baby, instead of a jar of sweet smelling bath salts, they brought the family ham, the one they got in their Christmas food basket from the church, complete with a ribbon that said, “Merry Christmas.”   

Everyone said it was the best pageant ever, but no one could quite put their finger on why it was so much better.  Our narrator said it best,as children often do, “As far as I’m concerned, Mary is always going to look like Imogene Herdmann, sort of nervous and bewildered – and ready to clobber anyone who laid a hand on her baby.  And the Wise Men would always be Leroy and his brothers, bearing ham.”

The Christmas story is complicated and messy and took more than one day to unfold.  Its message has the power to shape not just a day’s celebration, but how we live each and every day… even for our whole lives.  The love that is Christmas, the peace and joy that are Christmas, they are the goal of God’s people every day of the year.

May this poem from 20th century theologian and civil rights leader Howard Thurman be our prayer for Christmas and all of our lives…

When the song of the angels is stilled,
When the star in the sky is gone,
When the kings and the princes are home,
When the shepherds are back with their flock,
The work of Christmas begins:
     To find the lost, to heal the broken,
     to feed the hungry, to release the prisoner,
     to rebuild the nations, to bring peace among brothers and sisters,
     to make music in the heart. 

May you each be blessed with a merry, messy Christmas!

Peace, Deb

(Thanks to The Journey by Adam Hamilton, Christmas is Not Your Birthday by Mike Slaughter for influencing this year's Advent experience and this sermon.  Thurman’s poem originally appeared in his book, The Mood of Christmas and Other Seasons - 1973 - And thanks again to the Herdmann's for keeping it all real.)

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Sunday, December 23, 2012

Just waiting....

Something weird happened this year.  I finished my holiday preparations on Thursday - yes, five whole days before Christmas.  The house is festively attired... All the gifts have been made, bought, mailed or delivered... the necessary food has been purchased...  plans have been made to get together with friends on Christmas night for dessert and games... we are just waiting.

Sometimes I feel like I should be doing more.  There must be something left to make - something left to buy - something else to accomplish.  But I just wait.

It's a good way to end the Advent season... just waiting.  It's part of what this season of the church year is about.  Mary and Joseph, Elizabeth and Zechariah, they found out that God was working a miracle in their lives and they had to wait for it to be fulfilled.

We read the Christmas story from Luke and Matthew in the New Testament and we don't think about how long the story took to unfold - not just the months of Elizabeth and Mary's pregnancies, but the years between the prophecies of Isaiah and Micah, and others, who proclaimed God's promise to always be with us, to save us from our sins and our selves.  We hear the stories of Jesus, his work among the people, and his parables of grace and judgment, and we know that Jesus came not only to the Jews and Gentiles of the first century, but to the generations who have come since, and to the generations to come.  This miracle of birth and Spirit was at work in the people of Jesus' time, even in the midst of uncertainty and adversity.

Remember that the story of Christmas doesn't end on Christmas day - it's a continuing chapter in the story of God and God's people.  Some of this story is joyful, but other parts are hard to hear.  On the day after Christmas read all of the second chapter of Matthew.  Not only will you encounter the familiar Magi, who came from far away to worship the infant king, but you will also see how God was working, even in the midst of tragedy.  Massacres and fleeing are a part of this story, too.  In the midst of those struggles, God worked a miracle or two so that the holy family could flee to safety, and then return with the time was right.

God is working a miracle in our lives, too.  It may not seem like it.  God sometimes feels very far away.  But really God is right here... with us in the midst of our joys and surrounding us in difficult times.  God is with us in the warmth of friendship, in the constancy of family, in the small miracles of health care, and in reaching out to others in our abundance.  In that way, we are the hands and feet of Christ, reaching out to a world in need of this message of real peace and real love.  If we can just live out of love, then Christmas can be real for us every day of the year.

May your Christmastide celebrations be filled with much joy and many blessings!

Peace, Deb

[Jesus said," "Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Enter, you who are blessed by my Father! Take what’s coming to you in this kingdom. It’s been ready for you since the world’s foundation. And here’s why:
I was hungry and you fed me, I was thirsty and you gave me a drink, I was homeless and you gave me a room, I was shivering and you gave me clothes, I was sick and you stopped to visit, I was in prison and you came to me.’ 
“Then those ‘sheep’ are going to say, ‘Master, what are you talking about? When did we ever see you hungry and feed you, thirsty and give you a drink? And when did we ever see you sick or in prison and come to you?’ Then the King will say, ‘I’m telling the solemn truth: Whenever you did one of these things to someone overlooked or ignored, that was me—you did it to me.’ (Matthew 25:34-40 The Message)

Monday, December 10, 2012

The meaning of real perfection



Christmas looks a lot different around my house these days.  Oh, don't get me wrong - there are still lots of decorations - the stockings that Aunt Neva made for our first Christmas, trees filled with ornaments that hold memories of our childhoods and times together.  There will still be a gathering or two, our advent wreath and Jesse Tree observances... parties to attend, gifts to send, and more memories to be made.  But in the last few years, we have decided that our Advent preparations and Christmas celebrations are meant to be enjoyed.  So fretting has gone out the window, and we have tried to discover the joy in each activity that we undertake.  It doesn't mean we're not busy - it just means that we're a whole lot happier along the way.
In his book, Christmas Is Not Your Birthday, United Methodist pastor and author, Mike Slaughter sets out an exercise in re-examining our understanding and celebration of Christmas.  His premise: the season (and life) should be about experiencing the joy of living and giving like Jesus.  He calls us on many of our bad habits - purchasing gifts out of obligation, buying outside the limit of our budgets, and not sharing a part of our celebration with those who have real need.  It's been a really good read, and it's really enhanced my Advent devotional time.  One of the chapters is entitled, "Giving Up on Perfect."  Until recently, we have had a problem with that in our house... Sometimes I feel that I just can't live up to the expectations of those around me... my spouse, included.  It's getting better, day by day, because we have been willing to go to the uncomfortable place of talking about the things that cause strife in our relationship.  And with love, we have been able to sometimes compromise and other times concede to the other's wants and needs.  In the end, we realized that our difference make us stronger... and to not be offended if the other doesn't meet our standards, which are probably unrealistic to begin with.





When we look at the Christmas story, we think that it's the perfect story.  But I'll bet that Mary and Joseph would beg to differ.  Their lives were turned totally upside down.  The journey from Nazareth to Bethlehem was treacherous and long - 10 days of walking through difficult terrain and barren wilderness.  Their birthing  accommodations were less than optimal - but offered privacy and safety from the hustle of the growing crowds.  They stayed in Bethlehem for a lot longer than we imagine - long enough for shepherds and magi to arrive, and for an angel visitation to send them on to a safer place in Egypt, emigrants who would not return home for several years.

It took several hundred years for a theology to develop around the mysterious person of Mary, the mother of the Savior.  Now she is surrounded by words like "immaculate conception" and "perpetual virginity," but in the Christmas story from the gospels of Luke and Matthew, she is just Mary, a young woman who was willing to receive an unexpected call.  She was not chosen because she perfect, but she was favored - she was available, believing what the angel messenger told her, "With God, nothing is impossible."

In the English language, we have defined the word perfect by assuming that it means without flaw or messiness. But the word has a much deeper meaning.  Perfection is about fulfillment of purpose.  It is about accomplishment, even if the result is not one that we expect.  It is about finishing what we start, and going on to do something more.

Likewise, Christian perfection is about being all that God created us to be.  Spiritually, we are called to enter into mission wherever we are... to ask more questions and need fewer answers... to live with humility... to stop expecting superhuman feats of strength and moral character from ourselves and others... to react to our circumstances instead of molding our situations to fit our own needs.

So, how do we put these ideas into practice?  First, give up the idea of doing things perfectly - and just do them with love.  In his book, Every Good Endeavor, pastor Tim Keller talks about understanding our work as an extension of God's work.  Whether you are a homemaker, a company CEO, or milk cows for a living, believe that your work is integral to the work of God on this earth.  Second, have the difficult talk about expectations.  Swallowing our anger, disappointments and failures causes more problems that it solves, for ourselves and for others.  The people who love us will not abandon us because we speak out... and those that do turn away do not know real love.  And third, living out love may mean living large - but even more it means living small.  The grand gesture is wonderful and greatly appreciated, but it's the everyday small tasks done in love that keep the world going.  Doing laundry, packing lunches, giving someone a ride, holding someone's hand, crying with someone in their pain - all of these acts of kindness are ways of living out God's presence with others.

Love is the key to it all.  At the end of the day, we have keep reminding ourselves that God has a special work for each of us.  Like Mary, we are called to do the unlikely and unexpected.  Just keep telling yourself this, "I am not perfect - I am favored.  And this is all that I need."  Thanks be to God.

Peace, Deb
Life is not about staying safe and living comfortably.  The call to follow Jesus is a call to give your life to him, to join God's mission in healing the souls of the world.  We were never promised a reward in this life.  The real rewards are found in the joy and peace that we experience through serving others in Christ's spirit.  This is why we can pray with Mary, " I am your servant, Lord.  Regardless of what comes my way, let it be done according to your will, even when the angels disappear."
Even in the midst of the unexpected, the messy, and the devastating  you can still fully expect God to show up.  No matter what you are struggling to overcome, God promises to show up.  This is truly what Christmas is all about: in the midst of all of our messes - poverty, genocide, environmental disasters, wars, terrorism, religious hate and bigotry, divorce, cancer, and yes, even death, God shows up!  (Christmas Is Not Your Birthday, Mike Slaughter, page 36).